How well do you know me? Txt, email, phone, dm, Twitter... Home phone?
It was so casual. So easy. You needed to contact people and you'd call them at home. Maybe, and only if it was an emergency, you'd contact someone at work. With all of the ways to contact someone, what's the right way to reach out and "touch" someone (remember that old, AT&T ad)? I started conducting some informal research on the topic. What's the right way to reach out and touch someone? In a non-harassing way, of course. Here are my results:
- Txt- this is the starting point. Everyone tends to agree with a casual txt message is the right way to start the conversation or reaching out to someone, given you know them. However, just because you have my digits doesn't mean that you should call. Appropriate for business only for co-workers or established relationships. Don't txt me if you don't know me.
- Twitter/IM- I know these are not the same thing, but you can DM someone on Twitter, right? Pretty much the same as an IM in my book in terms of the direct message. This is the second rung of reaching out. This is a form of communication that I do not use with my professional contacts (yet).
- Facebook me - send me a note on Facebook, or find me when I'm on Facebook and IM me. This contact method falls into the same category as Twitter, don't use this method unless you really know me, meaning that we've had a conversation in which we communicated something meaningful, like our shared love for bourbon.
- Email- send me an email. This is pretty much the standard issue of contacting someone, business or personal. This is the most appropriate for business or personal realtionships.
- Mobile phone- my cell phone is the first number that I give to people. When I'm asked what my home phone number is, I actually have to look it up in my phone or dial it (after almost ten years). This falls into work, home, play, whatever. It's the first number that I hand out and if you know me, you can then txt me.
- Contact me through my friends - ask my wife or one of my friends to ask me to give you a call. My social network is pretty tight, word gets around quick here in the 'Nati. You better know me if you expect a call back from this source.
- Home phone- you probably really don't know me or I owe you money if you're trying to contact me this way. My home phone is pretty much relegated to bill payment and/or account related information. In other words, you don't know me and I probably won't call you back. It seems the only important calls I get here are the ones at 5:45am telling me my kid's school is being called off for the threat of snow or Hoxworth Blood Center. I have some popular O-Positive going on apparently.
- All other forms of contact, from FedEx to snail mail. You really don't know me or just want to sell me something. FYI- I shred your documents and attempted to get off your mailing list. Somehow you made it through. You and/or your company is probably not remotely close to being on my radar.
- Voicemail in all forms are pretty much non-committal. I don't listen to voicemails. I'll return your call promptly, but I won't listen to voicemail unless I am explicitly awaiting your dial.