Digital behaviors follow you and privacy is dead
About a week ago, my seven year old son asks me at breakfast "dad, what is sexting?" Though I wasn't prepared for the question, I did manage a good response. At a larger level what stood out as my future challenge is making the digital behaviors an issue that my kids should take seriously. It's a stark new reality. Our young people may not understand or appreciate the lasting impact of their digital behaviors. Digital behaviors follow you and there is no such thing as privacy. Privacy is dead.
First and foremost, your digital behaviors follow you. Behind every text, every search and tweet is a little digital footprint, some of them self-disclosed, some of them not. As I was preparing a presentation recently, I thought I'd go investigating some of the most recent posts from TextsFromLastNight.com. This site basically is a submission site for funny, risque text messages that are often related to alcohol, drugs or sex. Within a span of about fifteen minutes, I was able to find the originator of at least 4 comments with minimal effort. In fact there is no guarantee these individuals consented to sharing this content, but I still found them rather easily. The message is clear, digital footprints will always lead back to originator. As organizations, we are expected to take the privacy of our patrons very, very seriously. As consumers in a digital world, we are willfully giving up our privacy more so than ever.
The problem isn't just limited to messages and pictures that we send through our phones. It's also our location. A recent site has received a bit of attention, www.pleaserobme.com. This site basically scours Twitter and posts individual's locations that have been self-published via FourSquare. The notion of the site is to raise awareness on our own self-disclosure or our current location, which may not be at home. While good companies of the world are finding new and innovative ways to offer goods and services to our potential consumers, there is a contingent that will use these services for ill. Be ready.
So far, we've covered text messaging and pictures. However, those are quickly going to take the backseat to full streaming video. Web video is the future and it's here today, complete with cameras in our netbooks, laptops and mobile phones backed by high speed networks. I am very concerned about this growing digital behavior. You might be concerned about adult websites and the YouTubes, but I'd put those on the backseat. It's not those websites I am worried about. Enter Chat Roulette that was created by a 17-year old digital native that wanted to chat with people around the world. The site basically allows you to randomly chat with whoever is connected to the service. Daniel Tosh, comedian, recently had a skit on it that seemed about right; about every chat seemed to be some guy with genitalia in front of his webcam. With the media hyping this site, which is having the exact opposite effect of what they are reporting, the site's popularity has grown to 881, according to Alexa (US). No age checks, no verification and just about every computer made today is equipped to participate. Check please, call me "officially" scared.
Not all privacy disclosure is necessarily bad. As I mentioned previously, people are willfully giving up their privacy and we're going to continue to see this behavior grow. In fact, we're going to be incentivized to give up more in the future. Places like Mint.com offers a service for us to give up some of our privacy. They give us financial modeling and in return we provide them with our consumer transaction behavior. We also see this with our loyalty cards in most of our grocery stores. We let them track us and they sell our data to marketers/researchers. In return they provide us with lower prices (not sure about this) and custom coupons. My expectation is this type of tracking will soon make it's way to health insurance companies too. Insurance companies will incentivize us to disclose our health related data, they'll sell this data. In return we'll get free prescriptions, lower premiums or some other cross subsidy. I welcome things like this because scale data of that sort can ultimately lead to better outcomes for patient care (if used properly). It's a win-win in my book. Not all privacy disclosure is bad.
This piece isn't just about privacy. It's about what to teach your digital natives about technology and unforeseen outcomes of changes in the digital space. Here's my quick guide:
- Transparency: I quite hate this term, but I'll use it anyway. Mark Zuckerburg recently said, “public is the new social norm”, ergo there is nothing private. As I explained to my seven year old, our lives are open books, let's embrace it (leveraging it when we can). There are good consequences to our behaviors and bad consequences to our behaviors. Let's make a choice to make sure there's a lot more marks in the good consequences column. Aside: Good blog piece on this subject from Critical Mass.
- Connect online to offline: In the not so distant past, digital behaviors were separated from our offline existence. This is no longer the case. Your digital behaviors can have severe impact online and offline.
- Long lasting effects: Once data is digitized, it is stored, cached, recorded, emailed, texted and so forth. The implications of one's behaviors can have lasting repercussions.
- Teach it: You can't escape the society that we live in. We're officially connected. I think this might be as important as teaching a kid about drugs or alcohol.
I realize that my family is inundated with technology as it is part of our livelihood, maybe more than most. I cannot nor want to escape this. I want to deal with this upfront. I think it will position my kids for success in the future. Therefore I try to teach the right behavior at every opportunity possible. I want to reinforce our other values so that their online and offline behaviors are consistent in the new reality where privacy is gone and our digital behaviors are with us for a long, long time.
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